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Bidirectional expectation

As explained in Think Like a Software Engineering Manager

A bidirectional expectation is a mutually agreed expectation in which both a manager and a team commit to providing support, behavior, or results.

A bidirectional expectation is a shared commitment: the manager provides support, training, resources, and guidance, while team members contribute agreed behaviors or results. section 11.4.3

Make the agreement practical by:

  • Communicating goals openly and inviting questions or requests for help. section 11.4.3
  • Breaking broad expectations into SMART, actionable items aligned with individual goals. section 11.4.3
  • Checking continuously through surveys and regular conversations, then addressing concerns promptly. section 11.4.3
  • Reinforcing agreed expectations while modeling the desired culture, including work–life balance. section 11.4.3

Skill development

If a manager expects a team member to build a new skill, the manager supplies guidance and resources while the team member chooses a relevant goal, such as an AWS or security certification or learning React. A specific, measurable target and regular check-ins keep both sides aligned. section 11.4.3

How Think Like a Software Engineering Manager covers it

How deep it goes
Develops a practical checklist covering communication, support, SMART breakdowns, feedback, modeling, and reinforcement.
Examples
Uses skill development, AWS or security certification, React learning, regular check-ins, and late-night-email avoidance as examples.
What it assumes
Assumes a manager–team relationship but defines mutual expectations, support, communication, and SMART criteria directly.
What you can do after
Practice setting shared expectations, translating them into SMART actions, checking alignment, and providing reciprocal support.
How it connects
Links expectation-setting with open communication, SMART goals, continuous feedback, leadership by example, and work–life balance.

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